Er....yep. Heard on grapevine he been to hospital. Bust nose, jaw and it seems a tooth 'fell' out. He got a closed eye and extremely sore bollocks, so he wont be humping the slapper for a while. I just got a fat lip. Lol
Yeah Dan it was difficult....understatement.........it actually cracked me at the time and i ended up having counselling. Strange really, spent 22 years as a Fireman seeing and doing all sorts of horrible things and never had counselling, yet the ex managed to get me there. I still hate her with a passion, even though it has been 15 years since it happened. I still miss Jade and think about her a lot, especially at Xmas and her birthday....Valentines Day.............how ironic is that ! That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger.......so they say..............and bitter and not so gullible. It's all part of life (unfortunately) , the big thing is it does get better Blaggers and in the big scheme of things it's just another load of Cr*p to deal with and then just move on and enjoy life. I will never let a woman get to me like that again though, no matter how cute they are........or how nice their arse is
moved in the flat above your local,blaggs! isnt that just the crowning turd! change your boozer has uddersfelt gotta spearmint rhino? put the fear of god into me this thread has...its my stag do tonight...hey blaggs its round barnsley only 20 mins from you,,,, come on down???
Bloody ell, I must be lucky, I got a good un. Thing is, soppy as it sounds, but there are more women out there that will idolise you than rape you for everything... It's a question of finding the right one. A mate of mine says women are snakes with tits, but he had more affairs than anyone I know, an got upset when his missus went apeshit and took half of everything.... His second missus did what he did, and he went apeshit. It's a question of life balance, my missus knows I need my own space with my bike to clear my head and have me time, she doesn't moan, but I allocate every other Sunday for treating the kids and wifey to niceties, and go shopping in town with them. I would go mental if I couldn't have me time. Chin up chaps, life's shit without someone who cares about you, even shitter to not care about someone else, unless you are really selfish...there's not many that are though. One thing I will say is this, don't treat the next one as if they are the same as the last, lose the barriers and you will know yourself from experience if they are similar. Dad mode over
thanks si..... restored my faith..weve been together 9 years an she never moans about the time or money i spend on my toys,as long as we get our hols in n i stump up my half for mortgage etc shes quite chilled.
Exfire I know where your coming from mate, I thought nothing and no one other than my kids could get to me, then in the heat and horror that was my divorce after our twenty year marriage, a very delayed flight followed by the wonderful Heathrow immigration, I had a “moment” when stepping off the platform on the tube platform seemed like a really really good idea and solve everyone’s problems, someone grabbed me, and it brought me to my senses. Counselling and sick leave followed, counsellor was no older than early teens and I thought what the hell do you know about life!. She was useless. But had to go through the “official” process to be signed off as sane what ever that means. I have no major issues with me ex wife now (I grew up with her through school and she is the mother of my children so I guess I will always love her in one form or another) other then I wish she would leave me alone now and stop hassling me about how much I am earning and what my bonus is and what percentage she is entitled to, especially given she has re married to a lawyer and has far more than anything than I could ever have provided. But that aside nothing comes close to your issue with the daughter you thought was yours. That’s a tough pill to swallow and I feel for you mate.
Reading some of the posts just goes to remind me how lucky I have been with my choice of wife, 43 years married, and tbh she's put up with a fair bit with me and my funny ways. I feel for you fellas, must be really tough where kids are concerned. JD
Well that's another milestone, tomorrow I will have been married for more years than I was single. I did say milestone and not millstone didn't I?
She's just text me to say that the romantic dinner alone we were going to enjoy is now going to be shared by my sister and her evil horde. Beans on Toast for a 26th anniversary.... Yep, definitely a milestone.
