I don't see how the hell divorces still go all the women's way. It's so wrong. Fair enough splitting the house and contents but when it gets to them being able to take your pension and having to pay more money for other stuff when all they do is sit there and reap the rewards its not right. The law needs to be changed.
Well mate dont trust a thing she says she will have advice from tom dick and harry .I got divorced 28 yrs ago i lost my house she went back on all she said it put me back 10 yrs mate she was a bitch when it come down to what she wanted i got ripped off . Get some advice mate dont take her word for it, you need it all in writing word of mouth means nothing dont be a soft touch like i was cos of my son .Good luck with it you may need it. ps i married again it will be 21 yrs on 23ed may